What are you doing with your life? That’s not a trivial question. You’ll probably find yourself asking it more and more as you approach 30, and it doesn’t stop after that. It’s easy to get caught up in work early on, and while work is a good thing, it never fully satisfies our need for purpose. You can have the perfect career, tons of money, all the accolades, and still have trouble getting out of bed in the morning or come home feeling lost and lonely. Because, as men, we often think we want success, but what we really need is adventure.