When was the last time one of your coworker’s children barged into their office during a zoom meeting? It’s happened to everyone at some point. Did you immediately think, “What a terrible person. I can’t believe they are so unprofessional and such a terrible parent. They need to slap some manners into that kid”? Or did you think, “That’s a cute kid. I’ve been there before”? But if I think the second whenever it happens to someone else, why do I assume everything else is thinking the first when it happens to me?